I don’t understand why people will get married when in fact time will make them regret the vow they made. It hurt knowing that my example of marriage is not a happy ending but base on betrayal, infidelity and a marriage without trust.

To love its easy, to trust it’s so difficult for me to believe that in this life time someone is born to love and cherish you, PATHETIC! Someone maybe born for you but even though you have that someone already, we humans can never be satisfied for one.

when people talk about how happy marriage life is, I sometimes snort and sometimes walk away because in reality Marriage is never a happy one, more like a "challenging ONE" its a step by step situation, step one new weds saying to each other "I LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE" "NO ONE CANT TAKE YOUR PLACE" "ITS A FAIRY TALE COME TRUE OF HAVING YOU WITH ME" step 2, 5-15years of marriage says "CANT YOU EVER CHANGE?" "ITS YOUR TURN TO PAY THE BILL" "WHEN ARE YOU COMING HOME TO COOK FOR DINNER" "WHEN ARE YOU COMING HOME TO EAT DINNER" "HUSBAND, YOUR SUCH A CHILD WITH NO MATURITY AT ALL" "WIFE, YOUR GETTING FAT" step 3 16-25 years of marriage says "STOP NAGGING ME TO DEATH" "I'M TIRED CLEANING UP EVERY MESS YOU MADE" "DAMN, MY WIFE FOUNDS OUT I'M SLEEPING WITH HER BESTFRIEND" "I LOVE YOU, AND I NO LONGER LOVE MY HUSBAND" "I'M SORRY I CANT BE WITH YOU, I HAVE CHILDREN WITH MY HUSBAND" "WHY DID YOU CHEAT?" "DO YOU NOT LOVE ME ANYMORE" "AM, I SO FAT THAT HE CHOSSES SOMEONE YOUNG?" "MY WIFE NAGS ME, WHILE "SHE" COMFORTS ME" and step 4 26-50 years of marriage seldom happen, and seldom with a reason one 1. Ideally, the couple learn to respect first each other and forgive one another second 2. Practicality, the couple stayed together for that longest time even though there is no love and respect of one another but for the children sake they need to be a couple third 3. Sadly, can’t either divorce or annulled one another.

I'm a romantic person base on what I read and imagine, but if love happens in my way I sometimes run from it, because dreaming in an empty air is a waste of time. I can imagine my self falling deeply in love but I cannot imagine myself deliberately giving him my trust. For me I separate love and trust because loving someone is just like a firework that will make you happy with joy but doesn’t stay forever while trust is a tattoo hurt to apply one and so hard to erase once you have it.

For me marriage sucks, I can’t imagine why people intend to commit such vow.